This book is dedicated to all those who have struggled with loving yourself, loving others, and (sometimes) loving God. I want you to know ... you matter. The "It" Factor is a real gem for anyone that has had or is dealing with self-esteem issues and difficulty with forgiveness. Author, Bobbette Stubblefield, offers a rare glimpse into the often unspoken areas of life. What a treasure for readers to have access to the raw realities of life and how one can choose to become bitter or better. This is one of the most easy to read books I have ever read on the subject of forgiveness. She masterfully has taken the difficult topic of life's grievances, anger, and hurt and provided a path to follow a healthy and peaceful conclusion. Well done!-Jerry Balistreri, M.S., M. Ed., author of Reading the Tells - Learning How to Read Body Language Chapter by chapter, Pastor Bobette eloquently rolls back the pages of tradition and myth, inviting the reader all the way back to the Garden of Eden-a more biblically accurate version than I've ever had the tools to envision. She introduces us to an Adam and Eve that actually seem human and relatable ... What she offers in The "It" Factor is eureka moment after eureka moment of the hard-hitting truth encounters she has dedicated her life to stewarding and sharing. Throughout this powerful book, she encourages us to roll up our sleeves, get real, and engage with "it," now that we can finally discover what "it" is.-Kat Hubble, entrepreneur and poet.