This book is about the MEMES the author learned about Christ/God to build a relationship with him. She learned the fundamentals of a man God made in his own image. She believes once a person knows the basics of anything, then the process is made easier to deal with--the relationships she learned from and what she did wrong in the relationships, how she came to know Christ, and how she learned a man through Christ. She thinks a lot of women struggle with relationships because they do not know the basics of a man!