This is a guidebook to help children who:




hurt, hit, bite, smash, kick, shout, scream or who are out of control, hyperaroused or hyperactive
can only discharge their angry feelings in verbal or physical attacks, rather than being able to think about and reflect on what they feel
are angry because it is easier than feeling hurt or sad
are locked in anger or rage because of sibling rivalry
are controlling and punitive
regularly defy authority or are diagnosed with a conduct disorder
commit cold acts of cruelty, hurt animals or do not cry any more; spoil, damage or destroy what others do or make
create fear in others because they have locked away their own fears
do not want to please people, cannot trust, have stopped looking for love or approval or truly believe they do not need anyone
do not really know how to 'like' someone; and, definitely do not know how to love someone or are affectionate only if they want something.